Let's talk about superstitions.

The relation between Superstitions and Destiny is as old as the origin of superstitions itself. Man always has had a tendency of changing the so called noun- DESTINY and this tendency gave rise to the origin of certain ridiculous and completely absurd beliefs that has been controlling the weaker part of human psychology since ages. Now its time to rise and not just rise against it but also eradicate these beliefs completely so that the upcoming generations wouldn’t have to fear the unknown and believe in silly superstitions under the false hope of changing the destiny.

            The other day, I was attending a discussion based on this very topic of eradicating superstitions. I pulled out my wallet and checked into one of the compartments and recalled a small conversation between me and my family. Let me share the incident (I feel like sharing this because in my opinion this is one of the most general cases in every family):

The compartment contained a ‘tabeez’ given by a person whom my family consulted with hopes of safeguarding my future. They told me that I was supposed to wear it so that any ‘accidents written in my destiny’ could be done away with. Now the argument stands that if that metal piece changes my destiny, how am I supposed to believe that? I had no idea of what my destiny was in the first case. How can I say all of a sudden that my destiny has changed just because I have worn that ‘tabeez’? Who’ll clarify what my destiny was before I wore that???

These arguments, though valid, do not stand a chance in reality. People are really scared of the unknown and destiny is one of them. It is this human weakness that gives the ‘witty god-men’ the opportunity of exploiting us and building their social stand as well as their financial one. They do not come to us to offer a deal involving destiny, it is we who go to them, helpless and bound by fear, begging for a ‘thing’ that would eradicate the evil from the destiny.

Our character is built on our instincts and our instincts are controlled by our beliefs. If we believe in superstitions, quite simply speaking, it renders us weak and limits our potential. Don’t believe in what I say. Try it out yourself. Try barring superstitious beliefs. Try, at-least for once, controlling your own destiny, try questioning the logic behind superstitions and try finding the answers yourself.  Then go and look at yourself at the mirror and you’ll understand the changes that you brought about in yourself; I bet one of them will be an increment of self-confidence…

Superstitions were introduced to control the weaker at spirit and we, the people of 21^st century, still allow superstitions to creep into the society and render it weak from within. Yes! I can feel that sigh that your heart just gave but this is the way it is and this is the way that will be, until and unless we decide to disbelieve in superstitions and motivate the weaker ones so that they can understand the scene and live the reality….You are free to start now!

All the Best!

The Social Changes

The Evolution of Sociological Perspectives

[The idea of this article was launched at my sociology classes at the college. It was only my second day at the class and the atmosphere was worth mentioning. (Hadn’t it been an article on a subject in society, I would have had it mentioned.) One of my classmates introduced herself and notified that her purpose of taking up Sociology beside Biological Sciences was to furnish her knowledge on evolution of society and consequently that of human beings in the brief history of time. The teacher had a beautiful response to the introduction and that is what attracted my attention. Let us go ahead.]

“No doubt what you just said was interesting that you are trying to find a link between the evolution of human beings and the evolution of society, but I would like to make a small correction to the entire class- We have used the word Primitive for the society that was existent before us but have we the necessary information to judge that?? Can we be judgemental about whether our ancestors were primitive, that their society was worse off than what it is today? No, we cannot. It is because of the fact that the way of expression was not right. The society has changed, but whether it has evolved or not, we cannot say because we are walking in our shoes, not on theirs. “– was the teacher’s response and I, on my part, definitely appreciate it. 

The idea is very precise and noteworthy. Before we take to criticism, we must have our subject experienced at least once. Similarly, we cannot brand our ancestral society as bad or good because we don’t have most of the idea of how it worked (excepting the historical references). I have titled this article as THE EVOLUTION OF … but I admit, it was unfair on my part to do so. But let me bring to account why I completed the title using ‘SOCIOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVES’ rather than just ‘SOCIETY’. The society has just changed, not really evolved. The mind-set and the approach is what matters and these are what that changed.

                The human race has evolved quite a bit from yesterday-physically, mentally, technologically and psychologically. [Mentality and psychology are taken as two different things]. The origin of these changes is yet unknown to us, how it happened, where it happened, why it happened and so on- we do not know either of these answers with utmost perfection. What we can say about it is that the society has Changed not really evolved. The instincts have remained the same, just that they have become more furnished.

                Have we stepped into and walked on their shoes??? Do we actually know how the society worked at that time?? Do we have the adequate information so as to brand them as underdeveloped or PRIMITIVE? Think deeply on the first question that has been raised. The answer should be a negative. Why is it so?? The answer is simple and pretty reasonable. It is because they lived in a world we did not live in and howsoever historians try to figure out , we will be nowhere close to what and how they have had experienced. They used a different pair of shoes than what we us today-We won’t fit into them. But mere changing of shoe doesn’t depict evolution. Does it? No is what I suppose. We know the elements of their society but we are unaware of what ideals were followed at that time, what education was provide to youngsters, and so on. The engravings on stones or rocks tell us quite a lot but not all that’s required to prove the hypothesis that we have evolved, not just changed. We cannot justify ourselves or criticize them till we find out what their perspectives were. 

                Now if I take a different approach to the topic then it would be something like this- There were murders at the time. Yes? Yes. They killed the general public to satisfy their needs or attain vengeance. An evolved society would have this genre of people removed but has it been possible. Are there no murderers now? There are, and the number has even increased. The quality of murder has enhanced. Its economic murders now beside bloodshed. Almost all the developing countries are experiencing some monetary blunders or market crashes. Isn’t that murder? Not on flesh, that’s right but economy is equally important. All I’m trying to capture in this paragraph is that the human instincts, the basic human nature, the basic emotions have remained quite the same. It’s the taste of music that has changed. It’s the style of conquering that has changed. It’s only the outlook that has changed, perspectives that just changed, not EVOLVED.